Bank of Grandma & Grandad: Can Grandparents Help With a Mortgage?

Bank of Grandma & Grandad: Can Grandparents Help With a Mortgage?

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Rising property prices and stricter affordability checks mean many first-time buyers now rely on support from family members when buying a property.

While the phrase “Bank of Mum and Dad” is often used, grandparents are increasingly helping younger family members get onto the property ladder as well.

This support can come in several different forms, from gifted deposits to family-assisted mortgage arrangements.

In some cases, grandparents may also want to pass wealth down to younger generations during their lifetime rather than later on.

Can Grandparents Help With a Deposit?

Yes. One of the most common ways grandparents help first-time buyers is through a gifted deposit.

A gifted deposit is money given towards the purchase of a property, with no expectation of repayment.

Mortgage lenders will usually ask for confirmation that the money is a genuine gift and that the person providing it will not have a financial interest in the property.

Having support with a deposit can improve affordability and may also increase the range of mortgage products available. A larger deposit can sometimes help buyers access lower interest rates as well.

Can Grandparents Be Named on the Mortgage?

In some situations, yes.

Certain mortgage products allow family members to support an application without necessarily living in the property themselves.

This may involve joint borrower arrangements or guarantor-style mortgages, depending on the lender and the circumstances involved.

These options can sometimes help where a first-time buyer has a strong income, but struggles with affordability calculations alone.

Not all lenders offer the same products or age limits, especially where older borrowers are involved, so criteria can vary significantly.

Can Equity Be Used to Help Family Members Buy a Property?

Some older homeowners choose to release money from their property to help children or grandchildren buy a home.

This could involve downsizing, remortgaging, or exploring age 50+ mortgage options depending on income, age, and existing borrowing.

Others may consider equity release, though this is a long-term financial decision and may not be suitable for everyone.

Releasing money from property can reduce the amount of equity remaining later on, so it is important to fully understand the long-term impact before proceeding.

What Should Families Consider Before Helping With a Mortgage?

Helping a family member buy a property can be rewarding, though there are practical considerations for everyone involved.

Older borrowers should think carefully about how giving away savings or taking on additional borrowing could affect their own finances later on.

Retirement income, future living costs, and emergency savings should all be considered before making commitments.

It is also important for families to understand whether support is being treated as a gift, a loan, or a formal mortgage arrangement, as lenders may assess each differently.

Open conversations between family members can help avoid misunderstandings later on, especially where multiple people are contributing financially.

Are There Mortgage Options Designed for Family Support?

Yes. Some lenders offer mortgage products specifically designed to support family-assisted purchases.

Depending on the situation, this may include:

The most suitable option will depend on factors such as income, deposit size, age, and whether the supporting family members want ongoing involvement in the mortgage.

Speaking with a mortgage advisor can help families understand which options may be available and how different lenders approach family-supported applications.


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Dan Osman

Head of Later Life at UK Moneyman

Dan joined the Financial Services sector back in 2002, but actually left the industry in 2008 before returning some years later. During the in-between years, he took a degree to become a Social Worker specialising in working with vulnerable adults.

Upon his return, Dan combined his experience across both sectors to become an Equity Release Specialist and now heads up UK Moneyman’s Age 50+ mortgage team.

In 2026, he was named the winner of the Broker: Later Life Lending category at The British Mortgage Awards, reflecting his expertise and client-first approach.

He genuinely believes in a holistic approach and always ensures his clients receive a proper consideration of all the options available, including non-lending alternatives to Equity Release.

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